See? That was my first thought. This whole "pretty when broken" (I actually find the word "broken" itself, the idea behind it sexy in a way without knowing why), "pretty when crying" thing that comes up in a lot of LJs, and on a lot of icons.
That was my first answer too. But I'm not satisfied by that. I want to know why. Especially since I like it myself.
When I made the post I didn't really think about non-con violence vs mutual painpleasure. I tend to the mutual part, since it's not the non-con stuff I'm interested in. However, I have seen posts in communities like lotrips_finder where people actually were looking for non-con. Hurt by a stranger, comfort by a friend.
Both concepts are very fascinating as long as I discuss them theoretically. Whenever I want to cross the line of just talking, and consider it (even if just for a story) I have to say that it's the S/M that interests me most.
So. I hope it's alright if I pass the ball back to you so soon. Since my only reaction so far is "pretty", and I really want to learn and discuss.
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That was my first answer too. But I'm not satisfied by that. I want to know why. Especially since I like it myself.
When I made the post I didn't really think about non-con violence vs mutual painpleasure. I tend to the mutual part, since it's not the non-con stuff I'm interested in. However, I have seen posts in communities like lotrips_finder where people actually were looking for non-con. Hurt by a stranger, comfort by a friend.
Both concepts are very fascinating as long as I discuss them theoretically. Whenever I want to cross the line of just talking, and consider it (even if just for a story) I have to say that it's the S/M that interests me most.
So. I hope it's alright if I pass the ball back to you so soon. Since my only reaction so far is "pretty", and I really want to learn and discuss.